10 Minute Break

Ok so right now I'm at work on my break and I have 10 minutes left so I decided to get on here and blog and vent a little. Ok so this past year has been crazy...a class I need to take in order for me to get ONE of my dream jobs was closed so now I have to wait until the summer to take it :( I have a plan and a schedule I need to keep so hopefully this wont set me back. In addition to that my dad is really sick and the weather isn't making it any easier for him to deal with. Now this adds on a little extra pressure for me because I want to hurry and get into nursing school so I can graduate and make my next move so I can help my family out. 

Another lil issue I have been dealing with that has been taking up most of my mental and emotional capacity is my failed engagement. Yes I was engaged and it ended after less than 2 short months. I have been thinking about all the arguments, fights, and small issues that led up to that moment and yes it happened the day AFTER Christmas...lol what a present right? But aside from that I have just been finding out from my ex exactly how I am viewed in her eyes. You know when you're oh so deep in love things dont always appear so cosy and good but as soon as the shit hits the fan your are the worst person in the world. I mean I will admit I had my shit with me not perfect, far from it, a little selfish at times, and sometimes vain...This i def will admit but you know what kills me? When ppl throw that shit in your face! Like damn dog I know i got work to do but do u have to pour salt and vinegar on an already open very deep wound?!...Lol I guess this is just my karma for doing it to her.

I just want to know how do you get over a past love that just might have altered your future? I mean I am definatly

no saint and I would even lie and tell anyone I am. I have my flaws and faults and sometimes one persons flaws

are just too much for someone to handle (maybe even the one who owns them). **Sigh** my feelings about the

situation is like an unstable roller coaster. When I dont think about us and the lack there of I'm good! But when you're

constantly reminded of how and why you hurt the one you love so much it stings and the feeling of guilt pops

back up. Why?! Ppl yes I was wrong in some of the things that I have done but for the past 2 months I have

been more attentive, giving, hardworking, loving (not on a physical level tho) and just genuine than I could remember.

Like wtf is it! She told me I wasn't the one and thats cool but why must the salt be thrown on it all the time, she's

moved on yet mocks me cuz I lost her like duh I know I lost her and that is something that doesnt sit well with

me but hey i'm trying to deal with it.

Yeah I know I hurt her and yes I wish i could take the pain away. Maybe I should have fell back and relaxed and

worked on me when she was working on her. I should have let nature take its course while building myself back up to the

confident person I was BUT i didnt i forced it and picked at the scabs and reopened the sore before it could fully heal

and now its infected! Shit it might have gangrene and you know when you have that the only choice is to amputate it!

My damn man that was my left hand man, my deuce boon coon, my road dawg, my life my fuckin other 1/2 like

literally! Was it all a joke? Was the love not real? Was it to just past time? Is God telling me to take this time to

really grow? But most importantly are we really over?!

Thats retorical cuz I know she done with me, no false hopes, so sentimental love songs or poems, now its the

nitty gritty. I learned a lot from her and a lot about myself...some shit I wanted to change but didnt think it was

a big deal til I lost someone so fuckin embedded into my heart and spirit. I miss her I love her and was my calm

after the storm and now I'm just a fuckin sale boat stuck in the middle of the Bermuda triangle, sucked in and cant

get out...Needless to say I learned my lesson and new shit about me that I am definately working on changing.

I gotta start with ME...I just wish I didnt have to wait until she was gone...

...ok 10 min is up and I didnt know i could type all this THAT fast later...

Spews of Randomness

So according to my horoscope for this month I'm at a very creative peak in my life so why not decide to write something. I have always enjoyed writing but lately I have had so much on my mind that no single idea would stand out and work for me it was all mostly random and jumbled. I never considered myself very creative when it came to writing but when it comes to fashion i could create a masterpiece for all to see. I guess that's why I got along so well with an old friend of mind. She was a beast with words and I with fashion...so here it goes my random spew lol

I absolutely love the TV shows House, Nip/Tuck, Monk, CSI (Vegas of course the others don't really move me), Family Guy, Sex and the City, and more recently the Food Channel strikes a fancy to me

I love using fancy words like Swanky and Quaint :-) this just makes me smile.

I get a kick out of the little things in life and watching the rain fall on my window pane with my boo is the best thing in the world and can comfort and soothe me even in my worst moods.

My mother told me that no one can make you happy but you and I am so realizing that I  am finding what excites me again and it makes me smile.

Dancing in the mirror with my headphones on listening to good music that makes me remember what i went through and the strength i possess makes me happy.

I miss my ex, of course I don't to tell her then she would know how much she is on my mind...so unless she reading this she is completely out off the loop.

I  have such a huge imagination sometimes i create delusions on grandeur when i shouldn't and could use my imagination for more intimate ;-) and creative things.

I love fashion and want to become a personal stylist BUT on the other hand I want to become a nurse...I am such a geek its not even funny.

I used to tell me ex everything I learned it would help me study and she would listen even if she already knew the information i was sharing.

I love love love to travel and try new things, clothes, foods, new places, new cultures, anything to stimulate my mind and increase my knowledge i'm al about.

I am a very sexual person although I am shy as it is hard to imagine...an outgoing shy person (such an oxymoron)

I dont like fake phony people although all of us can be a victim of this at times

I realize that I am a very nice and sweet person but pretend to be a Bitch at times to protect being used...I guess this is why i cant seem to stay mad at ppl esp the ones I love, it gets tiring trying to pretend.

Damn

Is it my face you see 

When you wake up in the morn next to him her them or she

Does she roll over in the middle of the night

And kiss your eyes nose and mouth so effortlessly

Is the embrace that she gives you as pure as snow

Or is it tarnished like a locket far to delicate to hold

Are her motives purely for you or is there some power she's tryna gain over you.

Does your scent of smell overwhelm you with the happy memories of me

The ones that make you shake and shiver 

And moan and groan as we make love pasionately

Do the words that I write strike a cord of things put far away in your mind

I always knew that before we were through we would be put thru the test of time

Now that we both failed

Each in our individual  way

You cant tell me not a day goes by and you dont think about me or feel about me or miss me callin you just to ease your day